"Back to work..."

...back to work today.

Really not looking forward to this, because I am sure by this point everyone at work knows about the divorce. I imagine a lot of them will have comments or opinions..which right now I don’t need. The only thing I need from my friends and/or co-workers is support. I need to move forward and stop thinking about the future. Rehashing the hows and whys this is happening or talking about whose fault it is or isnt with them will not help me.

I love her and wish this was fixable but it takes two to rebuild and she tried to keep it together for 20 years. I wish I knew what she was going through, what I put her through..but I was too tied up in being a bi polar mess so, my marriage is over. I never get to hold my wife again and that is ripping me apart, however I cannot focus on that, if I keep thinking about it I am going to spin myself out and end up in the hospital in a padded room.

Forward to the Camino people...let me move on.


R-

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